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Saturday, December 11, 2010
To Work or To Stay for Your Baby
As soon as you give birth to your child, you enjoy the first few weeks of their life. Time flies fast and pretty soon, you have to think about going back to work. You usually look forward to the change of atmosphere. After all, you also need to get out after weeks of staying home. But with your restart date only a few days away, you dread leaving your baby. Though you miss the camaraderie and challenge of your job, not being with your newborn is actually one of the toughest decisions you will ever have to make.
Should you go back to work or be a full time mom? The fact is, there’s really no right answer for it. Each choice has both ups and downs. This simply means that you won’t be wrong no matter what you decide, but you likely won’t be absolutely certain either. Fortunately, your decisions can be reversible.
It might help if you thought in terms of the next 12 months rather than an entirely new and permanent career path. This can overwhelm you more, and this even makes decision-making more challenging. You’ll, of course, have to consider your family’s finances. If you’re left with no choice but to go back to work, you may as well realize that this is for the good of your little one. So whether you’re wrestling with yourself or already have a firm plan, you should know what is required of you.
If you return to work, your greatest challenge may be striking a comfortable balance between your work and your family. You may feel that you’re not giving enough of yourself for both. You’ll occasionally have to miss things because of work, and it may be especially hard to make peace with your decision.
The bottom-line is, your earnings keep your family afloat. You’ll be happier juggling your two worlds if you gave yourself a break. Unless you learn to clone yourself, you simply have to adjust. Switch gears when you switch hats and let go of any uncomfortable emotions. As long as your intentions are pure and that you give as much time for your baby as possible, there is nothing you should be guilty about. Get the support of your partner as well and just don’t accept to get the lion’s share of responsibilities.
If, on the other hand, you opt to be a full time mom, your greatest challenge would be to adjust to your new life. Work has taught you to thrive in a hectic and competitive environment. Then all of a sudden, you find yourself shoved in a completely different environment. In the pre-baby world that you once lived in, you’ll realize that nothing has prepared you for motherhood. The demands are constant but the pace is remarkably slower. This is where chronic interruptions preclude efficiency and where tireless labor goes relatively unacknowledged. It’s a huge shift, but maybe you don’t have to think of this as a permanent aspect.
Know that you can start a job once your child grows. Having new mom friends would also help you. Try to be proactive about getting the support that you’ll need from the people who understand. And never forget that you are doing a darn good job being there for your family.
Should you go back to work or be a full time mom? The fact is, there’s really no right answer for it. Each choice has both ups and downs. This simply means that you won’t be wrong no matter what you decide, but you likely won’t be absolutely certain either. Fortunately, your decisions can be reversible.
It might help if you thought in terms of the next 12 months rather than an entirely new and permanent career path. This can overwhelm you more, and this even makes decision-making more challenging. You’ll, of course, have to consider your family’s finances. If you’re left with no choice but to go back to work, you may as well realize that this is for the good of your little one. So whether you’re wrestling with yourself or already have a firm plan, you should know what is required of you.
If you return to work, your greatest challenge may be striking a comfortable balance between your work and your family. You may feel that you’re not giving enough of yourself for both. You’ll occasionally have to miss things because of work, and it may be especially hard to make peace with your decision.
The bottom-line is, your earnings keep your family afloat. You’ll be happier juggling your two worlds if you gave yourself a break. Unless you learn to clone yourself, you simply have to adjust. Switch gears when you switch hats and let go of any uncomfortable emotions. As long as your intentions are pure and that you give as much time for your baby as possible, there is nothing you should be guilty about. Get the support of your partner as well and just don’t accept to get the lion’s share of responsibilities.
If, on the other hand, you opt to be a full time mom, your greatest challenge would be to adjust to your new life. Work has taught you to thrive in a hectic and competitive environment. Then all of a sudden, you find yourself shoved in a completely different environment. In the pre-baby world that you once lived in, you’ll realize that nothing has prepared you for motherhood. The demands are constant but the pace is remarkably slower. This is where chronic interruptions preclude efficiency and where tireless labor goes relatively unacknowledged. It’s a huge shift, but maybe you don’t have to think of this as a permanent aspect.
Know that you can start a job once your child grows. Having new mom friends would also help you. Try to be proactive about getting the support that you’ll need from the people who understand. And never forget that you are doing a darn good job being there for your family.
Sunday, November 22, 2009
Caring for Your Newborn
Being a brand new mom is a gift that every woman can be thankful for. The first time you hold your baby in your arms, the first time he opens his mouth, and basically the first everything. You would do just about anything to shield that new angel of yours. If you can, you give them the best of everything, and this includes the things you put on their skin. Because the baby’s skin is so sensitive and fragile, you are always careful to choose what to put on them. Some chemicals make the baby’s skin break out, and that is the last thing you would want to happen.
Baby health care is therefore one of the many concerns that a new mother needs to consider. After all, her new baby is a blessing and she would want to do everything and anything to keep her baby safe. As a mother, you need to make the choice of what products to buy. Your priority is your newborn's skin because this provides the foundation of healthy adult skin.
When you go to the stores and choose the right skin care line for your child, you can get confused with all the products found on the shelves. There is a recent trend that suggests that organic skin care products are better for the child’s skin. Babies need appropriate light creams and baby lotion to keep their skin supple and soft. Of course, there is also the recurring diaper rash. Because babies require protection for wetness, diaper rashes are sometimes inevitable. Stock your cabinet with the rash cream that your doctor recommends. Always ask your physician. After all, they should know more about the latest products.
Aside from that, here are a few must-haves:
1. Onesies. This one-piece, snap crotch article of clothing is amazing. They come in cute colors and prints. They’re versatile as well in case you quickly need to bring your child with you for an emergency errand. Just put it underneath coats and bottoms, and you’re good to go.
2. First Aid Kit. This is probably the most important of baby basics. Put in some basic medicines, a rectal thermometer, a lubricant, some first aid cards with tips for what to do in case of an emergency, and of course, emergency numbers.
3. Diapers, of course. Be sure to stock up. Your child may be allergic to certain kinds of diapers. Try not to panic when rash breaks out. Instead, switch to another brand.
4. Sling. These are especially helpful when you like to bring your infant with you anywhere and everywhere. These are good for discreet breastfeeding as well.
5. Baby bed. Make sure that it has side guards so that your baby is kept safe even when he moves throughout the night.
6. Car seat and stroller. Many companies sell car seats that can also be converted into strollers once you get out of the car. Whatever your choice may be, your baby’s safety is a must once you bring him out of the house.
There are just so many things to know when you first have a baby. Don’t fret because help is available just about everywhere. Log online and check out the latest news. You’ll certainly be able to equip yourself with the know-how.
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